3/1/06
Bethany,
I gather you don't like this website.  Your numerous calls, shortly after I uploaded it, where you frequently referred to me as a "motherfucker" were the first clues.  Your comments to our mutual friends support this theory.  Since I really don't wish you any harm, I'll let you know why I uploaded the Bethany Sux homepage and also give you a little advice on how to stop this from happening again with your next lover.  

First, why did I make this website?  I understand it's difficult for a married mother of four, nude dancer and habitual liar to find a man that not only cares, but who will also help her pay $1,000 per month rent and utilities.  I love your children.  That's not the reason.  The fact that you didn't bother telling me you are married is a reason.  Your consistent denials that you have a husband is a huge reason.  I, and most decent men, make a practice of not dating married women.  I really don't have a problem with your nude dancing.  It's art!  However,  when we met, you told me you worked at Broussards as a waitress.  I don't understand why you didn't give me the respect to tell me the only job you've held in years was as an exotic dancer.

Your constant lying is the prime reason for the Bethany Sux site.  After Halloween,  I finally started to catch on to your lies.  Further research on the Internet and discussions with your current and past husbands made me realize you lied to me from day one.  Your refusal to admit one single lie only added to my pain and frustration.  Why couldn't you ever be honest with me?  I trusted you.  When I realized the extent of your deception, I had to do something to possibly save some poor fool from falling for your lies like I did.  

Last month, I was considering yanking your site off the Internet.  Then, you called pretending to be your mother.  All I could do was laugh at you.  Don't you realize I can recognize your voice after two words no matter if you say you are your mother, daughter, or the sheriff's department?  Give me a break!  I thought you were smarter than that.  It only pisses me off when you lie to me.  Do it again and the Bethany Sux homepage may be permanent.  

Since you have been living with your dealing cab driver boyfriend for a couple months now and it's time to pay rent, I suspect he's on his way out.  Here's a little advice on how to treat your next lover.  BE HONEST WITH HIM!  You are so damn attractive and quick many men would be happy to support you and your kids if you would only tell them the truth.  Tell him you're married.  Better yet, get a divorce.  Tell him about your dancing.  Don't make up stuff just to make him like you.  That will backfire and only breed resentment.  If you treat a man with honesty and respect, he might do the same for you.  It would also help to slow down and lay off the shit.  You can't last long living like you do.  If you cleaned up your act, you could do wonders.  Maybe church could help.  But now, I don't see how you live with yourself.  It's a shame.

I truly wish you would take some of this advice and have a healthy, happy life.  I will always love you and your kids.  But, I may never trust you again.

Danny